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As exhausted as she was she still looked forward to wherever he had planned to take them. He had asked that she dress special for the evening. There was not fear of speeding as where the roads were not torn up with construction, the traffic moved at a snailвЂ™s pace/ fortunately for her, she ended her last meeting closer to home.

She had finished with her final meeting of the day and could not wait to get home. One of those weeks actually when it appeared the world had conspired to make life impossibly difficult in every possible way. Her day had been frantic, and flustered, and completely it seemed out of control. There is a great deal said here, and it is all truth. So, if you want her to be YOURS Be HERS first. Well, my fellow Doms, when this happens she is ALREADY more YOURS than you you could ever accomplish with training. When you become one she can rely on, one she can feel safe with and one she longs to come back to. You have to be HERS, familiar and comforting. When she is with you she needs to know she fits. If you do this she will abide in you and no other with loyalty that will forgive any clutter you have lying around in your life.Д«ecome HER bed. Be the place she feels safe and protected from the world.

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I promise if you do this your tank will be full before you know it.Д«ecome HER home. You will make sure she is safe and taken care of. Show her that even when your tank is on empty and youвЂ™re near to burning out. When you get in your bed it feels like you belong and you can truly relax.ДЄs a Dom the first thing you have to do before you make her yours is to become hers. вЂњIt will be good to sleep in MY OWN bedвЂќ. You can spend a week in paradise and luxury on a vacation and invariably when itвЂ™s time to go home what will most people say. If itвЂ™s YOUR home, there is a sense of safety and protection it affords you when you shut the door to the out side world and are just вЂњhomeвЂќ.ДЇinally, think about the difference between вЂњaвЂќ bed and YOUR bed. It really doesnвЂ™t matter if itвЂ™s a huge place or a small apartment. Because itвЂ™s yours.ДЄgain, consider your home. You know IT and you know exactly how far you can push it on a empty tank. вЂњArenвЂ™t you worried youвЂ™re gonna run out of gas?вЂќ вЂњNaw.вЂќ You say. Have you ever been driving in your car with a friend and the gas light comes on? You may have distance left to go and perhaps your friend mentions something about it, after you pass the third gas station in row. Let me see if I can illustrate it for you. I am, however, talking about the trust that only ownership brings. IвЂ™m not saying you need to end up on the business end of a flog or paddleвЂ¦ Unless you WANT to рџњ. I can already hear the cries of outrage from all the Doms. You deserve the credit for your beautiful works.ДЄnd thanks to my followers, for continuing to encourage me to explore, and write.Дoms, if you want to have a sub that is truly yours, she has to own you first. Most posts are originals, with borrowed internet photo content, If credit has been omitted in the post, Please let me know so I may include it.

I do very few re-shares, unless they impact me deeply Most of what you see written is mine I will make a comment if the words are not my own. If we never dream? How can the dream come true. This is simply a running journal, things I feel, think,see or imagine. As I expand my knowledge of myself and increase the places I may dare to dream. While I explore myself and learn better who I am. My journey is in many ways feeling as if I am at the beginning again, even though it is somewhere in the middle, because now I have returned to that of place where I am once again learning me. Questioning how we want to define ourselves, our relationships, what we choose and need to include, that which we have excluded. As we go through various stages of our lives, we go through periods of education, of risk, of curiosity, of staying safe, of exploration. This has been myВ refuge and a home I am Trish Nielson.